A garden of fragrance, please.


I currently live in an apartment without even a balcony, let alone a garden. I'd love to have a garden again. If or when I'm next lucky enough to have a little patch of green space I'm going to fill it with beautifully fragrant flowering plants. In the meantime, I try to have cut flowers that are scented in my home and on my desk at work. They brighten my day. I love the smell of flowers. I love to walk into a room, open a window, or sit on a park bench and catch the scent of a beautiful bloom. 

And like many smells, the fragrance of flowers is incredibly evocative; redolent with emotion, evoking deep and lasting memories of places, people and happenings. 

Unlike the other senses, smell needs no interpreter. The effect is immediate and undiluted by language, thought, or translation.
Diane Ackerman
(1948-)
A Natural History of the Senses

If we do try to describe smells in words, we find it's very hard to do so without referring to how they make us feel - "disgusting", "lovely", "nostalgic"... The smell of flowers generally has very positive associations for me.

These are some of my favourites, and some of the things they remind me of:



  • Frangipani - Buddhist temples and shrines; warm night air wrapping me and my sister in the buoyant, carefree spirit of a tropical island interlude; watching sunrise from a beach in Zanzibar on the first day of the new millennium, with all the peace, trust and hope that moment held.
  • Gardenias - My mother, beautiful in a black dress, younger than I am now; two little girls making "perfume"; reading a book curled up on cushions in a sunspot, in a conservatory.


  • Freesias - Being a flower-girl in a yolk-yellow, floral-print lawn dress, with my hair curled and my heart full, at the age of four or five; Easter holidays with my cousins and siblings; affordable cut flower treats bought from a local street stall.
  • Lily of the Valley - Nana; living in Paris on May Day; Crabtree & Evelyn milled soap, received in a Christmas parcel, posted with stamps of red-breasted Robins and love.


  • Iceberg Roses - My great aunt Jess, so worldy, so sophisticated; cut crystal vases on a glass-topped dressing table; lying on the lawn in a historic rose garden, on long summer days, watching cloud animals pass overhead.
  • Jasmine - My first kiss; spring in Cape Town, a brief but magical season; a high school friend who was murdered but still visits me in my dreams to tell me that he loves me. I still love him too - always will.


  • Snowdrops - A dear friend's February Birthday dinner parties where they always appear, and a painting in her welcoming hallway; a walk in the woods wearing borrowed Wellington boots, two sizes too big; a dusting of snow in the Peace Park, last March, numb inside and out.
  • Madonna Lilies - Living in Harrow-on-the-Hill with six housemates and two cats, fun-filled days in an overgrown garden; pollen on a favourite dress; the cool interior of a church, dressed for a wedding - not mine...

Smells are surer than sights or sounds
To make your heart-strings crack
Rudyard Kipling
(1865-1936)

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11 comments:

Sebrina Wilson said...

I live in a condo and luckily I do have a balcony (small though it is). I would love to have a garden one day!!

Anairam said...

Lovely flowers and beautiful memories, Kendalee. I don't often look back in this way, I wonder why? I've noticed they are all white - are white flowers more likely to be perfumed, and if so, why? (PS I have a jasmine at my front door - sadly it doesn't flower! May be in the wrong spot?)

Linda Sue said...

Oh MY! You have certainly outdone yourself with loveliness this time. Such a beautiful post. Interesting how your perceptions sort life into senses, colours and fragrance. You are charmed.
I would buy dozens of copies of the book that you must someday write.

vsm/whirling dirvish photography said...

I cannot wait to have a garden either... I have pots lots, and lots, of potted plants but the rent house we live in does not allow upheaval of soil so... my pots and pots will have to suffice.

lisa said...

absolutely stunning my friend! such magical memories associated with beautiful white blooms. you have lived a flower-filled, love-filled life. I wish for you a garden someday so that you are surrounded by the scents of your life.

Denise Kiggan said...

What a vivid memory you have. How lovely connecting them with all these beautiful flowers!

kendalee said...

Sebrina - amazing what a difference even a balcony makes isn't it? I wish gardens for both of us one day! With magical lawn - that mows itself.

Anairam - I'm not sure, but when I think about it a lot of heavily perfumed flowers are white. Even within a type, the white often seems more so - like with stocks and frangipani. Perhaps they have to rely on their scent more because they don't have colour to attract the birds and insects that pollinate them? I'll ask my mother about your jasmine - she's a great gardener, knows all about that stuff.

Linda Sue - thank you! I do "file" things in this way - I thought it was how everyone did it but apparently not. I'd love to write a book one day (don't have a clue what though) so I'm delighted to know I'd have at least one reader!

Harper - oh pots and pot plants are a GREAT stand-in for not having a garden, and I think that's why I miss having even a balcony so much. But you're right, it's not quite the same is it? I'll wish for a garden for you too!

Lisa - I have been very lucky haven't I? Does me good to remember that. And that life's not over yet...

Denise - I do have a vivid memory - for the bits I DO remember! Triggers, like smells and colours bring things to mind very clearly and in detail for me. It's all the bits in between that I don't recall that worry me... Increasingly my short-term memory is like a sieve. Oh the joys of ageing!

Alexandra said...

A beautifull post!!

Unknown said...

i happened to help the gardener plant jasmine today. i have a vase of lilies in my lounge and i picked frangipanis to put next to my bed. you have awefully good taste...

i appreciate smell and taste so much since my accident. i have lost my taste and it has not yet come back. the drs say that i have damaged very specific nerves in my neck and spain and it will be a while before i can taste again. i am able to smell things only faintly. it removes such a vital aspect of living away. i only eat because i have to, not because i want to. everything is bland and so more than ever i am thankful to have five fully functional senses that have only temporarily been damaged.

i will make a point of sitting in my garden for you tomorrow. it is filled with beautiful pink and blue and white blooms. i will think of you and say a thank you prayer for the friendship that we have grown into it.

Unknown said...

oops... spine i wish it was spain : )

Lynne said...

I just love this post.
I too noticed how all your choices were white.
I love the springtime flowers. For the fact if nothing else they come at a time when we need to be reminded that more colour and warmth is on it's way.
Love it, thank you.